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April 6, 2025

Fifth Sunday in Lent

Isaiah 43:16-21

Psalm 126

Philippians 3:4b-14

John 12:1-8

(The context of this sermon was 100% written

in Canada by a human)

Let me present you with an ethical scenario: You are walking by the Rideau River one day, and out in the water, you see a drowning child. You are a strong swimmer and able to rescue this child with little trouble, and no risk to yourself. But you are wearing a brand new pair of expensive hoes that would be ruined if you did. So what’s your decision? Of course, we would all say, you forget the shoes and rush in and save the child. Any other decision would be terrible. You could never compare a child’s life to a pair of shoes!

This scenario was first posed by ethicist Peter Singer. He went on to ask: would it make any difference if the child was far away, but we were equally able to save them? When he posed this question to his students, they were emphatic: most said it would make no difference.

And yet, we make this kind of judgement call – almost each and every day. As the haves in a world of have-nots, we make the choice to save our shoes and leave the child to drown. Or, as it happens, to leave the child to starve, to not become educated, to be orphaned or to live in squalor. Every day, we choose what to spend our money on – those metaphorical shoes or the drowning child – and choose we do. Even though, as Professor Singer pointed out, appetite for fast fashion, new kitchens, and shiny cars pales in significance to the plight of the Ukrainian parents whose children have been stolen by Russia, and the immigrant students being summarily arrested on the streets in the United States, the unhoused people we pass by in downtown Ottawa.

But then this morning, we have this confusing gospel. Jesus has arrived at the home of Lazarus, and in that evening, Mary comes and uses a fancy perfume to anoint Jesus’s feet and dry them with her hair. In our context, this is a weird thing to do; back then, in a time of sandals and rough roads and long walking distances, anointing feet was a sign of hospitality for a travelling guest.

Judas, hardly the best advocate for the poor, is in a snit about it. He argues that perfume should be used for the poor. But of course, we know him – it’s all grand-standing. He’s a thief, we are told: one who was in charge of the common purse of the group and regularly pilfered from it. (How this could be known by our gospel author, we shall not question for these purposes.) So Judas is playing a game: perhaps he would take the perfume to be stolen and keep a bit for himself. Jesus, however, doesn’t agree: “She bought it for my burial,” he says. “You will always have the poor, but you will not always have me.”

What are we to make of this? On the one side, we could say that his fan club attention has puffed up Jesus a bit too much. On the other hand, doesn’t the caregiver also deserve some care? Carefully note what Jesus says to Judas: He points out that Mary has purchased the perfume to keep it for the day of burial. She is using just a little now, while Jesus may enjoy it still. And once he has been tried as a criminal, sentenced to death, with most of his allies in hiding, who else will ensure he receives the proper rituals of death, but someone like Martha and her family, who have made provisions.

The lesson for us, then, is one of perspective. This is a view that even Prof. Singer points out: An ethical approach to life does not forbid having fun or enjoying food and wine; but it changes our sense of priorities. We might question where our focus lies, and what we are not doing. We may reconsider what benefit comes from earning ever more money and collecting a larger pile of possessions. We may ask ourselves: what is our life worth? And simultaneously, as Singer proposed, we must also ask: What makes us feel fulfilled? What brings us a sense of accomplishment and peace? Perhaps, he suggests, those two sets of questions are not that far apart. “An ethical life,” he writes, “is one in which we identify ourselves with other, larger, goals, thereby giving meaning to our lives.”

We only have a few weeks left of Lent. Hopefully, you have maintained your discipline. But that only matters, of course, if that act of reflection has helped you clear space within yourself for something new and life-giving. We might think of Lent as the time when we all consider our ethics: What do we accept to be true? What do we reject? How do those answers shape our lives? We may frame those answers against the gospel, the ultimate manual for the ethical, Godly life. But its directions, kindness, love, and charity come with complexity. If our time and our resources are finite, for whom do we prioritize our love and charity? And is it okay to get those lovely new shoes we found online?

I suspect Jesus would say yes, and no. The gospel is not meant to make life so harsh that we take no enjoyment from it. If, however, we are only buying shoes, and never using our relative advantage to save lives, we know we are serving only ourselves.

Last weekend, I was present for a debate about whether to cancel our Out of the Cold rotation because of a looming ice storm. I found this difficult to hear. Serving the gospel requires sacrifice and risk. How could travel issues from our own warm and comfortable homes come before the hungry and cold people living outside in that same ice storm? And yet, my faith was restored by all of you: Given the number of volunteers who came out last Saturday, we all knew the right answer. My thanks to all of you who served so kindly and lovingly. I heard from many grateful clients about the warmth of their reception.

Once is not enough, as we know. Already, in that kitchen, plans were afoot to do more. And as Prof. Singer sagely notes, by giving to others, by saving the child in danger, we are giving back to ourselves a life of purpose and joy. In doing the right thing, we give ourselves happiness. The gospel is clear about this. Jesus’s life and death are concrete examples of this. Not only is the child saved from drowning, not only is the spirit of the weary stranger fed, not only is the world changed for the better - but so are we.

Amen.


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March 30, 2025

Fourth Sunday in Lent

Joshua 5:9-12

Psalm 32

2 Corinthians 5:16-21

Luke 15:1-3, 11b-32

(The context of this sermon was 100% written

in Canada by a human)

Our brains are built to make comparisons. It is how we learn language at an early age: What’s the difference between an orange and an apple? It is how we learn to function in our social environment: How is my house different from my neighbors? How is this situation different from the last one? Based on this, where should I go, how should I respond, which one do I really want – the apple or the orange?

But our brains also have a bad habit, one we know all too well. Psychologists call it the social comparison, and it is perhaps the main reason we find ourselves unhappy. We compare ourselves to others and reach judgments. Sometimes, we come out on top – smarter, better-looking, more successful. And sometimes – perhaps more often – we lose: the subject of our comparison is smarter, more attractive, wealthier. We choose whether to look up or down in our comparisons, and a lot of that depends on context. We use those comparisons to decide who gets loved most in our families, who merits a win at work, where we stand in the line of life.

Social media are designed to capitalize on our propensity for comparison, our instinct as social creatures to compare how we measure up to those around us. In this case, we are fooled into judging, as the saying goes, the insides of our houses to the outsides of everyone else’s. So we look at our messy lives, and compare them to the carefully curated front lawn, the all-smiles vacation, and if we are not careful, these flawed comparisons can make us miserable, can make us blind to what we have ourselves, and can be demotivating.

Consider how social media would have factored into our gospel this morning – the famous story of the prodigal son. The wayward son who comes home is instantly forgiven and gets the royal treatment from the father. The pain and anger of the dutiful son would only have been heightened by the fact that he would likely have been following his brother’s social platforms and seen all the fun he was having. Partying and frolicking with their father’s money, while he toiled away and did his duty. How that would have irked him even more. How it irks us when we find ourselves in that situation.

The lesson of the prodigal son is a hard one for us to accept. It goes to the heart of what is fair. Is it fair, that one son should have to stay home and work, while the other gets to go off and live the grand, irresponsible life? It’s not fair. How many times have we said that? When, as kids, our siblings got excused from the dishes when we had to do them? As adults, we are more likely to mutter it to ourselves – when, say, one sibling gets a helping hand from parents because they are down on their luck, while you, working hard, receive no gift. I see people trying to balance that family ledger all the time, and the conflict that flows from it. It is impossible. What’s fair is always relative. But it is not the same as equal.

That’s the lesson for us today. God is above fairness: but God is very big on equal. The prodigal son is meant to show us that God does not make comparisons. We are neither apples nor oranges. There is no line-up at the pearly gates. We arrive as individuals and we are judged that way. The forgiveness that the gospel describes and the grace that Jesus teaches mean nothing if God doles them out like treats for good behaviour; it must be equally available for all of us. Whether we are behaving like the wayward child, or the dutiful one – and be honest: are any of us always one and not the other? We are meant to understand that we are equal before God, that our relationship to God is our own, and is the only way to live a gospel-led life. God does not compare us to anyone, and we should not do it to ourselves.

But also – and this is important - God is saying: Butt out. Mind your own business, because your business is complicated enough. If the returning son is guilty of sloth, the dutiful son is guilty of pride. Both have lost their way.

We get this lesson in Lent, at a time when we are to be reflecting on our lesser qualities, on improving our relationship with God, and with those around us, because there is a tendency to use that time to make comparisons. When we say things like, “Sure I am not perfect, but look at that other guy; he’s a real mess.” Or, “Why bother? I will never compare to this other person; she’s got it together. “

But, as the gospel shows us, that is looking at things all the wrong way. This kind of self-talk gets in the way of making real change. When we are looking outward, there is a greater chance of feeling ourselves fall short. But change must happen inside, by rooting around, tossing what should go, treasuring what should stay. We cannot truly learn about ourselves, and truly change, if we do not first know who we truly are.

The lesson here is that we are not meant to feel better or worse when we consider the lives of others; we are meant to learn from one another and teach one another. We can hold one another accountable with guidance and support and not judgement or envy. This is the positive comparison that Jesus is trying to illustrate for us. What can we learn from that person we so admire? What can we offer the person who is struggling more than we are? How can we, like God, bring balance to life? How can we step out of the line – because who created that anyway? – and bring others with us?

It is not easy. There are plenty of days we feel like the angry son. But if we are happy managing the farm, why does it matter what anyone else does? If we are not happy, what might we do to change it? What can we control? Only ourselves.

What might that angry brother have done differently? He might have recognized that it was no skin off his nose that his brother had returned – indeed, it was a possibility for reconciliation, a chance for more help with the family business, an excuse for a party. Life, as we know, is a lot about how you look at it.

The gospel narrative is not always fair. Some people get more time with Jesus than others; some people, whose need is greater, get more help. But the goal of the gospel is to bring balance to the world. We cannot be a source for that balance if we are busy judging others. There is only one person we should be comparing ourselves to. And he is slowly, knowingly and generously, making his way to Jerusalem on our behalf. Amen.


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March 23, 2025

Third Sunday in Lent

Isaiah 55:1-9

Psalm 63:1-8

1 Corinthians 10:1-13

Luke 13:1-9

While there is no printed version of the sermon available this week, a recording can be viewed.

Bishop Carla Blakley was in Ottawa on the 23rd of March, to preside over a joint Ottawa Lutherans service at St. Peter’s. The service highlighted the different languages that make up our Lutheran family.

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