Genesis 12:1-4a
Psalm 121
Romans 4:1-5, 13-17
John 3:1-17
Sermon by Joel Crouse
Our gospel today gives us a line that is so familiar it can almost slip past us:
“Indeed, God did not send Jesus into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” Not to condemn. But to save. Not to judge, but to serve.
But is this true? Jesus appears to spend his fair share of time pointing out what was wrong in the world. He sometimes couched his ideas in parables, but we understood: the person who walks by a dying man and doesn’t offer help– that’s wrong. The person who devalues someone because they are just a woman at a well – wrong. The person who would trade his beliefs for money and honour - wrong.
How easy and delicious that feels. The world gets so simple. The person who breaks a law: Wrong. The person who lies: Wrong. The person who fails to help: consider yourself judged. And we have so many targets today for our condemnation and judgement. We are living in a moment when so many people are doing harm so publicly, so casually, so boldly. The headlines come at us like a flood. Leaders spew racism with impunity, or lie brazenly when we can see the truth for ourselves. Communities have been unjustly targeted. Our own country is continually insulted. Rage-baiting is rising. The ethical bar is falling.
We could spend our whole day handing out condemnations, and we might even feel a little better at the end of it. Until we didn’t.
Yet how do we save a world with so much wrongdoing, without condemnation? How do we serve the gospel without clear values, without judging?
Let’s take an example that seems small, but really isn’t.
After the United States men’s hockey team won the gold medal against Canada, they got a call from the President of the United States. And during that call, Mr. Trump showered them with praise and glory and then offered up a private jet to the Oval Office. And then he made a joke, telling the men that he would have to invite the women’s team – also gold medal winners – or else he would be impeached. The room filled with laughter, all of it caught on camera.
In most of my social media feeds, the judgment was swift. These men, most of them professional hockey players, had allowed their teammates to be belittled, even though they had also won gold with far fewer resources, and had received no call from the president. My feed filled up with insulting memes and critiques of the men’s team - even more so when all but five of them showed up for the State of the Union celebration.
Those jokes were funny; the judgement felt deserved.
But was it useful? If we were trying to right a wrong, to save rather than condemn, did that judgement accomplish anything? I don’t think so.
In the first place, it focused a lot of attention on the people we were condemning – a group of people who make a lot of money to play a game, and who live in an entirely different world from the rest of us.
Secondly, by focusing on the joke and on how the men’s team laughed, we made them the story – so much so that when the captain of the women’s team was asked questions about it in a press conference, she pointed out that here she was, a gold medal winner, having to explain someone else’s behaviour.
Thirdly, by focusing on the players in the room who laughed, we missed the few in the group who cheered for the women. The story could have been: these hockey players refused to go along with a sexist joke. But judging was more fun.
Fourth: instead of judging, we could look more widely at the story, and ask ourselves, “Who needs saving?” By elevating allies, we shift the conversation back to why a certain group would need allies at all. By asking how this kind of belittling joke plays out in the resources and support the women get, we have focused on a problem we might fix. By lifting up graceful winners and honorable losers, we define the world we want.
And this is the difference between condemning and saving, between judging and serving. In fact, Jesus spent his ministry using what was wrong in the world to highlight what was right. The person who stopped for the dying man – that’s the Good Samaritan we remember. The words of the woman at the well -- that’s the focus of the story Jesus tells. The tax collector is defined not by his job, but by the choices he makes within it. Jesus may have dodged temptation in the desert with the devil, but when the disciples don’t do the same, they are not condemned. They are embraced by Jesus to try again. At each stage, Jesus urges us not to spend time on people to be judged, but to look behind them and around them to the people we need to serve. This is why we have a gospel that reveals values, but does not point fingers.
And so, like Jesus, we must be careful that in naming harm, we do not define contempt. That in fighting justice, we still believe in redemption. That we can say “this act was wrong,” without also deciding “this person is beyond hope.” That when we do point to wrongdoing, it is not just a way for us to reassure ourselves: “I am not like them.” For of course, one way or another, we are all imperfect; we all have parts of ourselves that merit judgement.
Now let’s be clear, Jesus was hardly mealy-mouthed. We all know where he stood; his values are clear to us – and yet he made them clear by focusing on what he wanted to save, and not by becoming mired in condemnation. That is not wishy-washy. It is strength.
Let this be part of our Lenten journey: when we feel ourselves judging, let us stop for a moment. Take a breath. Is this judgement - even a just one -useful? Who am I ignoring when I focus on this judgement? What better cause am I missing? Sometimes, like that rude joke in a locker room, you will see that the focus should be on serving the brunt of the joke, rather than on judging the joker. Or you may recognize that within that very same person we are judging there is also a someone who needs our help.
Jesus came into the world not to condemn but to save. And so, we are called in the world, not to judge but to serve. Especially this world. And especially now.
Amen

