Isaiah 63:7-9
Psalm 148
Hebrews 2:10-18
Matthew 2:13-23
Sermon by Pastor Joel
A few weeks ago, I happened across a story I read, while preparing my sermons for Christmas. It was an experience shared by a reader in the New York Times, seeking advice.
At a party, the writer observed a nasty exchange between two children, a 12-year-old boy and a younger girl, around 8. The boy had taunted the girl, who was Latina, saying, “You better pack your bags. Cause Donald Trump is going to send you home.” The girl in tears went to her mother, who confronted the hosts, who then asked their son. He denied that he had said anything. And with the classic he-said, she-said, nothing was resolved – the liar wasn’t chastised, and the victim’s voice went silent.
The reader explained, she said nothing. She didn’t intervene. She didn’t want to make a conflict between children into the centerpiece of a party. So she went home, having stayed silent, and yet wrestling with it enough that she wrote to a stranger to ask if she had done the right thing. (And let’s be honest: usually when we are asking that question, we are hoping to be absolved of our guilt.)
So what would you have said? What would you have done?
This morning in our gospel, we hear the angels who came to deliver advice and warning to Joseph. The first angel appears to warn Joseph that Herod is looking for Jesus - Mary and Joseph pick up and flee to safety, and barely escape Herod’s horrific atrocity – so fearful is he of Jesus, still a baby, that he orders the massacre of children. A second angel appears and tells Joseph to move again. And finally a third. The family finally lands in Nazareth where they stay.
The angels that spoke to Joseph were not telling him anything he wanted to hear. The last thing I imagine he wanted to do was uproot his family – again – and take another trip to a strange place. All through the Bible, we are presented with examples of angels – serving as the bearer of news, usually the kind that unsettles the person receiving it, and forces them into action. The angels are the divine engines of the Christmas story: telling Mary how much life is about to change, urging Joseph to stand by her, pushing the shepherds out of their comfort zone. The angels are the voice that tells each of them to act when they might have stood waiting on the sidelines. They are the voice of challenge and change, neither of which are always comfortable or easy. They tell us to open our eyes and prepare for what is coming.
We have gotten away from talking about angels. They are the pretty shape of ornaments. They appear on Christmas cards. But they somehow seem too fantastical, and maybe a little hokey for these modern times. We call people angels when they do good, when they act with kindness. But if somebody told you that they were hearing the voices of angels, you would probably tell them to see a doctor.
But is it really true that you have never heard the voice of angel, a messenger of your faith speaking to you? Have you never heard a voice that said – Speak up! Or Wake up! Or Get up! I bet you have. I know I have.
Here is the part I left out of that writer’s story: She wrote in seeking advice five years ago. Five years - that’s before the pandemic. Before the lockdowns. Before the trade war. And yet, that letter could have been written exactly the same today. In the United States, the rhetoric and racism around immigration has worsened, become more dangerous, more violent: university students walking to class are being taken aggressively into custody, even Canadians are landing in detention. What did silence for the sake of momentary peace at parties, between neighors, in our advocacy for human rights change five years ago? We see for ourselves: it changed nothing.
Have we even needed out better angels more than right now? Right-wing, anti-democracy rhetoric is only getting louder. Lies are presented as truth. The world feels thrust back to a time when racists could be outspoken, when tyrants rule the day, when honorable values of tolerance and justice are being erodes, when the good order - much of it created out of Judeo-Christian principles and ethics - seems to be collapsing into chaos. We could use a few angels to blast us with a trumpet or two and remind us to stay awake.
In the case of the advice-seeker, I went back and looked up the response. She was told, categorically, that she had failed herself, the children and society by staying silent. She has passed on her responsibility as a bystander, to stand by the victim, and to teach the bully. She was advised to call both sets of parents and report what she had seen, in the hope that reparations might follow.
She was, in effect, chastised for not hearing the angel when she should have. At least, however, she was told, she could still hear the angel enough to have been bothered by her failure to act.
We will all end up in her situation someday; life is inevitably filled with these moments, where we bear witness to unkindness and injustice and must decide what to do about. Maybe, when that has happened, you heard your inner angel and acted. And maybe you chose to pretend you didn’t hear that better angel. Maybe you will act in the future. Maybe you won’t.
But our second lesson reminds us of the most important teaching of Christmas. Jesus didn’t come to earth to rub our nose in our failing. He wasn’t about final judgements, and he didn’t even spend a lot of time on sin – the church of history has done that work for him.
As we are reminded in our reading, Jesus came not to help angels, but to the descendants of Abraham. That is – us. “Therefore he had to become like his brothers and sisters in every respect, so that he might be a merciful and faithful high priest in the service to God.”
Because Jesus was also tested, he can understand when we are tested. Jesus came to understand people by living among people, by hearing their complaints and concerns, and by experiencing those same complaints and concerns.
asks that we see and listen to the little girl in the story, received the wound. But also see and listen to the little boy in the story, who wielded his words like weapons. And the to ask: how can we with our own actions and choices, fill the space between them with love and kindness and understanding so that they might cross? In this way, we are not only to listen to our inner angel, Jesus sets the example of listening to each other.
Wake up, angels said to Mary and the Shepherds and Joseph. Wake up, the angel says to us.
Wake up so we can be kind when we need to be. So we can be strong when we have to be. Wake up so we can hear the voice of God.
Amen

